[](http://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/in-relationships-we-cheat-every-single-day-hesaid/) [This article](http://goo.gl/ERgzGd) moved me.. > The days of holding hands, opening the car door, taking her out “just because,” sending her flowers just to get a smile and leaving her notes on her car should never be gone.We have to be children when it comes to love. We have to be vulnerable and free. That can’t happen when we’re preoccupied with the details of everyone else’s lives.Focus on each other. When it’s all said and done, that’s all you really have.Appreciate her, and show her how much she means to you. But, most importantly, put your phone down, and dial into what’s in front of you.