Somehow someones parents let their 19 year old get married and while she debates the pros and cons of cheating on her huband I'm firebombing her with messages on Discord that say: > Keep your head up champ. I know life seems like you've seen the harshest parts of the world and there isn't anybody in the world who can understand what you've been through, but the reality is those are just "growing pains" and the cold hard truth is it only gets more intense as time goes on. Consider this small lesson your entrance fee of things to come. Things mean more and decisions have ripple effects that have a perpetuating effect for years. Keep those that matter to you most close and lean on those people hard when situations get the toughest. Find solace in strangers like you have tonight and let out the things you feel you can't trust people with that you know every day. I know it sounds strange that offloading things to a complete stranger is of any benefit to anyone, but believe me that it is. It's not the fact that you're talking to someone it's the principle that you're letting it out of your internal conscious and out into the world. That way, it's the "universes problem" now that it's been manifested out into the open. You'll learn more and more every day that almost everyone in this lovely world is almost identical and most of our problems are just stemmed in this strange tribal idea that there is something that makes "us special" when the reality is we are not. It's us, collectively as a whole, working together, for the better of tomorrow that makes any of this worth it to begin with.